Dakota Younger's management philosophy used to be straightforward. Push harder, add more coal to the fire. Bigger is better, faster is everything.
Having a daughter changed that.
He'd come home late during intense work weeks, and she'd already be asleep. Days would go by where he barely saw her. He was building a company but missing his kid grow up.
It made him think differently about the team at Boon. People need time away from work to actually be good at work. Sounds obvious, but most founders don't operate that way.
People Need Different Types of Recharging
Your phone battery drains when you use it. So does a laptop battery. Car batteries work differently. They recharge while you drive. Solar batteries need sunlight. Each system has its own recharging requirements.
People are no different. They need time away from work to recharge batteries that fuel their skills, creativity, and decision-making capacity. Without that recharge time, performance degrades regardless of how talented someone is.
A Gallup meta-analysis of 1.8 million employees found a strong positive correlation between employee satisfaction and productivity. Organizations in the top quarter of employee experience achieve twice the innovation, double the customer satisfaction, and 25% higher profits than those in the bottom quarter.
A study published in Ergonomics tested adding 36 minutes of extra break time for meat-processing workers. The result: production stayed the same while worker discomfort decreased. More rest didn't cost productivity. It actually improved the work experience.
The Urgency Addiction Trap
Most founders operate with Dakota's original mindset. Their brains constantly think about more. More hours. More output. More pressure. The instinct feels counter to stepping back and giving people space.
Many companies want employees to function like cogs in a machine. Push the throttle, and everything speeds up proportionally. Reality works differently.
Always-on culture creates diminishing returns. The American Psychological Association found that burnout affects over 75% of employees, with many citing poor work-life balance as the leading cause. An analysis of work-life balance data shows 56% of employee burnout is caused by negative work culture, and that burnout drives 20-50% of turnover.
Those aren't just well-being statistics. HR leaders report that burnout accounts for 20-50% of their annual employee turnover. That's recruiting costs, training time, lost productivity, and institutional knowledge walking out the door.
Urgency becomes addiction when leaders believe constant pressure extracts maximum performance. The opposite is true. Workers with strong work-life balance demonstrate 21% higher productivity than those without it.
When Rest Beat Urgency
We had key hires waiting at Boon during the holidays. Offers needed to go out, feedback from senior team members was critical, and candidates wanted movement. Every signal pointed toward urgency.
Dakota's instinct was to push. Follow up with the team, get answers, and move the deals forward. Everything in him wanted this done yesterday. Instead, he stepped back.
He told both candidates and team members that he understood the urgency but was giving his team flexibility during the holidays. They would respond when they could, and if they hadn't responded by a certain time, he would follow up. Otherwise, it was on them.
The deals moved more slowly than candidates wanted, and some team members probably wondered about the delay. Dakota chose to prioritize something more valuable than speed on those specific hires.
"I don't think the juice is worth the squeeze there," he explained. "What's the point of moving that quickly and having these people feel like I never let up? That affects our relationship and how they approach Boon as a whole."
This gets at a fundamental truth about sustainable performance. Having one person constantly breathing down their necks during the holidays wouldn't improve the team's judgment. It would actually degrade their relationship with work and with leadership. The short-term gain of faster hiring would create long-term costs in team dynamics and trust.
Stanford economist Nicholas Bloom's research on hybrid work found that employees working from home two days a week maintained identical productivity and promotion rates while dramatically reducing turnover. The study showed hybrid arrangements created a "win-win-win for employee productivity, performance, and retention." The pattern holds across different contexts: giving people space to manage their own boundaries drives better outcomes than constant pressure.
The Performance ROI of Rest
Fresh teams make better decisions. They spot problems earlier. They generate creative solutions. They collaborate more effectively. All of this shows up in business outcomes.
The numbers are compelling. Work-life balance data reveals that companies with work-life balance programs see 85% increases in productivity, 25% lower employee turnover, and 50% lower healthcare costs.
This isn’t just theory. People bring interesting things to the table when they have flexibility, freedom, and space, and are not constantly on demand. That's hard for founder brains to accept. The instinct is always more urgency, more pressure, more coal on the fire.
But there's a point of diminishing returns. Finding that spot and actively seeking it out, rather than just accepting that it exists, becomes critical for both individual and team performance.
The Gallup study shows a correlation between satisfaction and customer loyalty (r=0.31), lower turnover (r=-0.25), and higher profitability (r=0.16). These aren't soft metrics. They directly impact business results.
Building Rest Into Culture
Making this real requires more than policy changes. It requires cultural shifts that feel counterintuitive to many founders.
Respect Boundaries During Off-Hours
Don't contact team members during holidays, evenings, or weekends unless truly urgent. Define what "truly urgent" means. Most things that feel urgent aren't.
If you're thinking about reaching out, ask yourself: Will this actually improve the outcome, or am I just trying to ease my own anxiety about the situation?
Model The Behavior
If you tell your team to disconnect, but you're sending emails at midnight, they'll work around the clock too. Leaders set the pace. Get home in time to see your family. Take actual time off. Show the team that rest is valued.
Make It Safe To Rest
Employees need to know that taking time off won't hurt their career progression or create problems when they return. Make this explicit. Celebrate people who take their vacation days. Don't reward the person who never disconnects.
Measure What Matters
Track employee engagement, retention rates, and productivity over time. Compare teams with healthy boundaries to those in constant-urgency mode. The data will show which approach actually drives results.
A study published in Frontiers in Psychology confirms that work-life balance negatively correlates with turnover intention. Employees who can minimize work-family conflict gain higher satisfaction, improved well-being, and reduced desire to leave.
Provide Mental Health Support
Offering counseling services, wellness programs, and mental health days demonstrates an investment in team well-being beyond just work output. Research indicates that mental health support improves morale and fosters a retention-focused workplace culture.
The Long-Term Thinking Shift
Building a sustainable team means accepting that people are humans, they’re not cogs. They need space to experience life outside work. They bring better judgment, more creativity, and stronger performance when they're not depleted.
This requires fighting against founder instincts that scream for more urgency. It means finding the sweet spot between pushing for results and recognizing diminishing returns. Rest becomes a strategic advantage when leaders treat it that way.
The companies winning on retention and performance aren't the ones grinding their teams into burnout. They're the ones recognizing that batteries need to be recharged to maintain power.
Our approach at Boon comes from hard-won experience. Everyone faces tensions between work demands and life responsibilities. When leaders acknowledge this reality and build systems that support it, they create real differentiation in how they attract and keep talent.
When you get this right, people stick around. They do better work. They bring ideas you wouldn't have thought of. All of that creates results that urgency addiction can't match.
Start Building Sustainable Performance
Your team can't recharge if they're buried in administrative work. Winning on talent requires building cultures where rest drives results.
Boon automates referral program management so your TA team has bandwidth for what actually matters. Our platform delivers 40% cost savings per hire and 52% faster time-to-fill, so your team can focus on building relationships instead of chasing spreadsheets.
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